Staying Safe While Looking for Love
(Oakland County, Feb 10, 2025)
Oakland County, MI – Valentine’s Day is a time for love and new connections, but it’s also an opportunity for online scammers. Cybercriminals exploit emotions through romance scams, phishing attacks, and identity theft. With dating apps and social media playing an increasing role in relationships, staying vigilant is essential. By following key cybersecurity practices, you can protect yourself and safely navigate online dating.
The Rise of Online Dating and Its Risks
Online dating has made it easier to meet potential partners, but it also exposes users to identity theft, financial fraud, and emotional manipulation. The Federal Trade Commission (FTC) reports that romance scams led to $1.14 billion in reported losses, with a median loss of $2,000 per victim—the highest among all imposter scams.
Scammers typically create fake profiles, build trust over time, and then pressure victims into sharing sensitive information or sending money. Awareness of these tactics is the first step in protecting yourself.
Cybersecurity Best Practices for Online Dating
To stay safe while dating online, follow these key precautions:
1. Use Reputable Dating Platforms
- Stick to well-known sites with strong security measures.
- Avoid unverified platforms that may lack fraud prevention controls.
2. Protect Your Personal Information
- Use a separate email address for dating accounts—not one linked to work or finances.
- Do not share personal details like your full name, address, workplace, or financial information.
- Be cautious with social media links, as scammers can use them to gather more data about you.
3. Use Strong Authentication
- Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA) on dating apps and email accounts.
- Use unique, complex passwords for each account.
4. Verify Before Trusting
- Conduct a reverse image search on profile pictures to detect fake accounts.
- Arrange video calls before getting emotionally invested in an online connection.
5. Protect Your Photos
- Before posting pictures on dating sites, remove metadata to prevent location tracking. This Consumer Reports guide offers simple, step-by-step instructions.
- Use AI tools like Picarta to check if your images expose more personal details than intended.
6. Meet in Public & Stay Safe
- Choose a busy, public place for the first in-person meeting.
- Share your plans and real-time location with a trusted friend or family member.
- Consider using a dating safety app for added security.
7. Avoid Financial Pressure and Scams
- Never send money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency to someone you haven’t met in person.
- Be cautious if an online partner urges you to invest in financial schemes, especially those promising “guaranteed” returns.
What to Do If You Fall Victim to a Scam
If you suspect you’re being targeted by a romance scam:
- Stop all communication immediately.
- Report the scam to the FTC (ReportFraud.ftc.gov), the dating platform, and your bank if money was sent.
- Warn others—sharing your experience could prevent someone else from falling into the same trap.
Final Thoughts
Online dating should be about meaningful connections—not financial loss or heartbreak. By recognizing red flags, verifying identities, and practicing cybersecurity awareness, you can enjoy the experience safely.
Remember: Real relationships aren’t built on secrecy, rushed emotions, or financial requests. Stay informed, trust your instincts, and let genuine connections thrive without cyber risks.
Additional Resources
For more information on protecting yourself from romance scams, check out:
- Romance Scams — FBI
- Looking for love online? Protect Yourself Against Romance Scams | Homeland Security
Learn more about Oakland County’s Information Security Office here. Visit their Citizen Cyber Training portal for online education and online cybersecurity resources to help understand risks and be better prepared for a more secure online experience.
